A Little Update From Last Night

"Denver Is Stuck In The 90s" (denver80222) 09/30/2014 at 13:09 • Filed to: Personal

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Still no Apology...

I woke up to texts from my ex-girlfriend and (what I thought was) my friend. They told me, that I was in The wrong for being upset and kept trying to justify his actions by saying "he doesnt think the holocaust was justified, he just wanted to get a rise out of you" no excuse, even if that was the case, doesnt make it any less wrong. Then they had the nerve to call me a bigot because of all of this. They even threatened (offered) to call my friend (his girlfriend)'s dad. He's a lawyer who does a lot of non-profit work in the jewish community, he calls himself "The Token Goy" (his words not mine). I completely was okay with that, He would most likely side with me. I'll update as this progresses. Below is more text screenshots (there is some context missing because we had short phone screaming matches)

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BTW, I wasnt calling her stupid, that was more of a blanket statement for all the people in my life. I mean, We all can be stupid at times right? I know I can. Its curious though that she internalized that, kinda makes me wonder what she thinks of herself. I kinda feel bad.

CalzoneGolem > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:18

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Just cut all contact and move on man. Life's too short to deal with this shit. There is no way anyone is going to apologize to you.

sm70- why not Duesenberg? > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:19

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Just don't talk to hem anymore. Cut yourself off from them. They don't seem like people worth having anything to do with.

Mr. Ontop, No Strokes, No Smokes...Goes Fast. > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:19

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When it comes to valid views, I'd say the ones opposed to the Holocaust (and genocide in general) are on the moral high ground. Stick to your guns, man. You may also want to consider finding a smarter girl to spend your time with while you are at it.

RWS Motorsport > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:21

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To quote John Oliver: Fuck Those Guys.

Seriously, you don't need people like that in your life. It may suck to essentially break up with 'freinds' but sometimes its the best thing to do. I appreciate that very easy for me to say from a sofa in Surrey, and not in your shoes, but honestly, in 2 weeks you'll be happier without them.

TwinCharged - Is Now UK Opponaut > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:26

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Hmm.

FUCK THEM ALLL, FUCK THEM ALLLLLLLLL~~

Nibbles > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:44

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Say your good byes, delete their numbers, and black-hole them if you want. These are people that A: you don't need in your life and B: don't need you in theirs. Time to move on.

Klaus Schmoll > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 13:45

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O.K. so the cliffs notes version is that they belittled the holocaust just to get a kick out of getting you in full on anger mode?

Fuck them! This is wrong on so many levels. Nobody needs friends like that. Maybe they will come around and see the error of their ways, maybe not.

MadPiglet > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:03

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Dude. No.

Cut them off. Block, unfriend, etc. These people are NOT GOOD PEOPLE and there is no way you are their friend. They are not acting like friends to you!

As I said in a comment on the other post, there are 7 billion people in the world and a few million in Colorado. Go find some that don't suck out loud like these ones all seem to do.

Dumping friends is hard. Sometimes it's scary because it can be lonely when you lose people. But you're lonely NOW. You just don't know it yet.

I said it before: THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT YOUR PEOPLE.

yamahog > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:08

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Don't feel bad. They're just getting defensive because you refused to take their bullshit. IMO, not the kind of people you want to be friends with.

barelylethal: shitass > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:32

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DTMFA, dude. "Getting a rise out of someone" is asshole behavior to start, and it's certainly inexcusable when it comes to actively being a bigot. Don't be sad you're ending the friendship.

intheweeds > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:34

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You know what? I honestly giggled a bit at the text where they called you a bigot. Some of us over on GT twitter have a running joke: You know you're completely right about an issue when someone you're calling out breaks down and calls you 'the real bigot'.

So congratulations. You are completely right about these people.

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:37

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Hey Denver, would you like me to share this one, too?

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 14:38

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Yes, but a little later. There have been some developments and it seems its almost over. I'll let you know here when Ive updated it again.

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:39

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And also this:

is fucking beautiful! Well said! And fuck those people. They're not worth the dust on the heels of your boots.

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:40

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10-4.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 14:43

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Thank you, I was quite proud of that one

Xyl0c41n3 > intheweeds 09/30/2014 at 14:43

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Haha. Right? I love it when people do that shit. Cuz who doesn't need a laugh? Glad you're here, weeds. ^_^

Twitter squad, assemble! Lol.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 14:44

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Its already been shared by someone else, just now. But could you repost it after I update? Or better yet, if I write a seperate update could you keep an eye out and share that?

Celia the Vampire Slaying Vampire > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:45

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I'm sorry you lost your friends. They're gone now. They are fully fucking racist. OH TEE HEE IT'S JUST RACISM SO THEY CAN LAUGH AT YOU WHEN YOU DON'T LIKE THE RACISM TEEEEE HEEEEEE. You are clearly a good person and you deserve better friends. These dopes don't deserve to be around you.

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:46

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Yep. Do you want me to unshare this one in the meantime? Or leave it up?

Lenami > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:47

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Honestly, it sounds like all these people are giant assholes and not worth the energy for you to be their friend. If they can't understand that what they did to you was incredibly hurtful and stop acting like they're the victims in this situation, there's not much you can do. You don't have to be the one who apologizes because they're in the wrong.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 14:47

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Nah, its already shared. Thats fine. It was just more practical to wait, before it was shared. I wouldnt have removed any of the information when I updated it.

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:49

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Okie doke. I'll keep my eyes peeled. Or drop me a comment so I get a notification, and I'll share straight away.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 14:50

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Gotcha will do. Thanks for your help and support. The GTers were/are wonderful.

I never thought a male Opponaut would ever say that, But Im glad I did

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:51

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No prob, dude. Got your back! And I told ya we don't bite. ^_^

ScavengersDaughter > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:52

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wow. these all sound like horrible people that are happy to be horrible people. I'd just nope the fuck out of there. But if you've got the energy to keep fighting that, it does need to be fought.That kind of behavior is not defensible.

Their best argument is "he's not really racist, he just enjoys saying racist things because he's an asshole. you're the racist for calling him a racist"?!

ThereIsNoFluffy > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:55

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Good lord your friends are assholes. Time to dtmfa (all of them) and move on. You're never going to get an apology and that's ok. This is the universe's convenient way of telling you that it's time to make new friends. Fuck those antisemetic motherfuckers. And during the high holidays no less. Smdh.

Hello, America: Never Fuck a Republican > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 14:58

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I am so sorry. They are grasping at straws. I know this really sucks, dude. I can't even imagine. You deserve better, and kudos for standing up for yourself.

rokokobang > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:00

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I'm so confused about why anyone would ever get anyone's parents involved. Is this a 4th grade classroom?

Seriously, stop talking to these people forever. It'll make your life vastly better, and might even make you smarter, because you are associating with some stuuupppiiiiid people.

intheweeds > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:06

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Seriously though, I didn't see this exchange. Go ahead and unshare. I promise I won't call you a monster.

WingardiumFuriosa > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:07

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It baffles me how all of these people think "he only said those things to make you angry" makes any sense as a defense. First of all, if that was the goal, then why are they all so apparently surprised at/upset by your anger? Second of all, anyone whose goal is just to make someone angry is clearly an asshole and I can't comprehend them not thinking that.

Xyl0c41n3 > intheweeds 09/30/2014 at 15:09

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Nah, it's ok. We're all goo.......OMG what's with that face?!?! I am a little disturbed. Hehe. But really, it's nbd. ^_^

Jane *is* the... blue passport > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:15

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Don't think of it as losing friends. Think of it as "thank fuck I got out of there before wasting more of my life with them". It sucks that they've shown their true colours...but at least now you know.

yamahog > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:16

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If you're looking for things to share: http://dajnik.kinja.com/ I'm dying

Xyl0c41n3 > yamahog 09/30/2014 at 15:22

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Ugh. But still, so many comments, and on the most inane oppo posts, too, where I just want to reply with "NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR BONER!!!" Sad that that even applies to comments on posts about being kinja'd.

achintobe > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:26

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Someone was making a Holocaust joke but the real problem, according to her, is that you implied she was stupid? These are terrible people. I'm sorry that your friends are doing this to you. I wouldn't consider them friends.

BasicName > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:32

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Damn, those people you hang out with fucking suck. I'm sorry you had to find out like that.

Dusty Ventures > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:33

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I think this needs to be the next step, for everyone who's been arguing with you, friend, friend's boyfriend, and your ex. Apply tactic to both phone and life, you're better off without that kind of poison.

yamahog > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:34

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Oh, the Ronda Rousey gif? Yea, dumb.

Vin > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:38

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Just read the original post...wow. I'm not even Jewish and I'm fired up.

I'd just go dead silent on them. Don't even acknowledge them in public.

Just...wow.

Xyl0c41n3 > yamahog 09/30/2014 at 15:41

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The gif was fine. It was the "them boobies" comment and the implied lockeroom snickering that was eyerolly.

yamahog > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:43

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It's really sad that someone can witness a skilled athlete execute a brilliant beatdown and walk away with nothing but LOL BEWBS.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:45

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Alright, Here's the final update:

http://oppositelock.jalopnik.com/an-end-to-a-ve…

Xyl0c41n3 > yamahog 09/30/2014 at 15:46

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What are you talking about Yamahog? Nobody wants to see two women fight. They obviously have no skill. Just like everybody knows women don't like cars, or football, or working with power tools, or getting dirty, or...............

/vomit.

intheweeds > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:47

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Have you never heard of Gilly??! Oh you're in for... something. Here you go.

https://screen.yahoo.com/gilly-sex-ed-0…

yamahog > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:48

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And when we do enjoy it and after adequately proving ourselves through no less than 500 flaming hoops jumped through: "UR SO MUCH COOOLER THAT ALL THE OTHER GIRLZ SO HAWT LET ME LAP UP YOUR BUTTSWEAT AND LICK UR TOES"

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:54

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Shared! ^_^

Xyl0c41n3 > yamahog 09/30/2014 at 15:56

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The appropriate response to that is to fart in their general direction. ^_^

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 15:56

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Thanks, really you dont know how much this meant to me. How you and all the GTers helped me.

Xyl0c41n3 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 15:59

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I'm glad I could help you. And I passed along your thanks to GT in my share. Here's an internet hug: ((((((Denver!))))))

yamahog > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 16:01

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I would never....

Xyl0c41n3 > yamahog 09/30/2014 at 16:03

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Of course not! Everyone knows women don't fart.

yamahog > Xyl0c41n3 09/30/2014 at 16:04

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*graceful poot*

Notorious GIGI > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 09/30/2014 at 16:05

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Your friends have all revealed themselves as anti-Semites. Instead of recognizing their bigotry and trying to change, they're digging in. You're not going to change them and you'd be better off rid of them. Good thing the ex is an ex, and the friends should be exes too.

HermionePond > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s 10/01/2014 at 10:33

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I can see why she's an ex-girlfriend.